tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12461652.post4703499289795777263..comments2024-01-10T17:38:08.333-05:00Comments on Elizabeth Burns: Um, Wow.Liz Bhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16671844475303001610noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12461652.post-84442970417806429852008-09-09T14:49:00.000-04:002008-09-09T14:49:00.000-04:00I wonder if the present day books that have the ki...I wonder if the present day books that have the kids more bothered by dead and missing parents is not a reflection of things being "realistic" for the kids, but, rather, a reflection of adults no longer wanting to admit that they could disappear from a child's life and the child not care? <BR/>=====<BR/>I like this explanation a lot, better than hearing people complain that the adults are always MIA in kids' books. I LOVED having the adults MIA in books when I was a kid, because then I could easily insert myself into the story without having to abandon my RL parents. Just think: tons of danger and adventure and no one around to nag about meals and clean underwear (Magic Tree House, anyone?).<BR/><BR/>I really like Jamie Oliver and anyone who has followed his career knows about the complicated and slightly uneven relationship his wife has with him, so the fact that she's written a book to rival Madonna's (or Jerry Seinfeld's wife's) makes me feel a little sorrier for her than I used to. Becky's right - she needs a therapist more than a book deal.sheilahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11005397694258169964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12461652.post-788117827495687642008-09-08T22:24:00.000-04:002008-09-08T22:24:00.000-04:00Anon's post got me thinking. I've heard what Anon ...Anon's post got me thinking. I've heard what Anon has said in various forms before, oldfashioned books where "it's not about the divorce, the growing up without a father." So in other words, The Famous Five are OK because while the parents disappear, the kids don't care. <BR/><BR/>Mrs Drew being dead, is OK, because Nancy never cries in her pillow about Mommy being dead.<BR/><BR/>Anne Shirley mourns her parents enough to remember them both when naming her children, but for the most part her concern is making a life in the here and now.<BR/><BR/>The parents have to be gotten rid of in a book in order to have the story go forward. I wonder if the present day books that have the kids more bothered by dead and missing parents is not a reflection of things being "realistic" for the kids, but, rather, a reflection of adults no longer wanting to admit that they could disappear from a child's life and the child not care? <BR/><BR/>Gregor the Overlander, for example, great book. But I don't know if it would suit Anon, because Gregor's father is missing and the family is definately damaged by the loss of Dad. <BR/><BR/>I read a book several years ago (one by Norma Johnston, I forget the title) and it was widowed Mom. I still remember how -- cold -- the loss of Dad was. It was very, oh he's been dead for so long we all are fine now, on with the story!Liz Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16671844475303001610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12461652.post-48584499210512387612008-09-08T21:58:00.000-04:002008-09-08T21:58:00.000-04:00I saw the article and my first thought was that th...I saw the article and my first thought was that the woman needs a therapist, not a consultant. And she can't be paying too close attention to what her children want to read, because kids rarely want to read about a situation exactly like their own...<BR/><BR/>I rather get the impression that she's found herself all of a sudden married to a celebrity who loves the busy-ness and limelight, and her own plans of a quiet life at home have been torpedoed, so she's trying to exert some sort of control however she can -- and it extends to writing (and getting published...) her own books and her vision of her daughters' lives ten-plus years on. <BR/><BR/>She strikes me as rather sad and desperate, and she needs someone helpful to talk to, but not features writers who'll egg her on to talk too much (her fears about his affairs, the hopes for more babies, IVF -- all the stuff that should be private, for Pete's sake) and suggest photo shoots with gauzy dresses. Oy.<BR/><BR/>For Anonymous's nephew -- Roald Dahl, E. Nesbit ("Five Children and It", "Story of the Treasure Seekers", "Enchanted Castle"), "Phantom Tollbooth".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12461652.post-79580484129161659312008-09-02T20:00:00.000-04:002008-09-02T20:00:00.000-04:00Well said. There are SO many great books being pu...Well said. There are SO many great books being published these days...<BR/><BR/>For anon...besides the books mentioned in your article (Penderwicks et al)The Meanest Doll in the World, by Martin has been popular with my <BR/>2nd and 3rd grade boys and girls.Stasia Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16299074609347599698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12461652.post-91981794473489390882008-09-02T11:11:00.000-04:002008-09-02T11:11:00.000-04:00Thanks! I'll keep checking back in case you think ...Thanks! I'll keep checking back in case you think of anything else, but I'll put the Jenkins on the present-list.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12461652.post-12631345714902891982008-09-02T10:09:00.000-04:002008-09-02T10:09:00.000-04:00Anon, I've been reading mostly YA recently so I've...Anon, I've been reading mostly YA recently so I've got to put on my thinking cap. In the meanwhile, Toys Go Out by Emily Jenkins and its sequel, Toy Dance Party, would, I think, be a great fit. There is humor for older kids, yet works well with little kids. The only people it wouldn't work for are those who get seriously creeped out by the idea of toys coming to life when you're not in the room. And, it's a chapter books with some illustrations, so works well for a longer night-time read.Liz Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16671844475303001610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12461652.post-37214461380497240852008-09-02T09:48:00.000-04:002008-09-02T09:48:00.000-04:00Serious question, though:I loved Edward Eager. I ...Serious question, though:<BR/><BR/>I loved Edward Eager. I read them to my kids. White-bread world with a little magic to read aloud to five and six year olds who are used to listening for forty minutes at a time to a book that lasts a week or more. What else do you recommend? Notice that I said white-Bread-- the characters certainly don't have to be white, something else would be nice, but the story is about the magic nickel, or the fairly tame trip through time. It's not about the divorce, the growing up without a father, the loan-shark down the street, or being beaten up by the other kids. Most of the fantasy/magical realism, that I have found is for older readers and has a dark--this-is-the-ugly-real-world-- side. I'm looking for the more gentle stuff for to read in the presence of even younger siblings. It's too late for my kids (alas, they were long ago lost to the animorphs and spend waaay to much time reading dragonlance books, but you know, what can you do?), but I have nephews coming along with parents who read to them, developing that taste for old-fashioned books.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12461652.post-38202493963647274842008-09-02T08:48:00.000-04:002008-09-02T08:48:00.000-04:00Gah, nevermind the book, I'm creeped out by her la...Gah, nevermind the book, I'm creeped out by her la-di-dah, life-is-so-perfect description of childrearing...as she happily smothers her little darlings with weapons-grade hand soap and squelches all their playdates. Being that overprotective isn't cute, it's...*shudders* I don't care what she says, that whole article screams UNHAPPY WOMAN to me.Sarah Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02153201454830937349noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12461652.post-84107996693828898942008-09-02T00:26:00.000-04:002008-09-02T00:26:00.000-04:00Well, I never heard of Jamie Oliver, so it's not l...Well, I never heard of Jamie Oliver, so it's not like these are HUGE celebrities, either. <BR/><BR/>But I like the consulting service idea, Liz. You could do the world a public service AND make some money. A win-win if I ever heard of one.Jen Robinsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10343476550309656223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12461652.post-73913554864046503222008-09-01T14:09:00.000-04:002008-09-01T14:09:00.000-04:00Yeah, I read that, and I was just thinking, SHEESH...Yeah, I read that, and I was just thinking, SHEESH, is she nuts!? I mean, we <I>knew</I> Madonna was a few planks short, but this inoffensive, basically silent women -- is suddenly in the limelight, strolling through the fields being bloody offensive.<BR/><BR/>Gah.tanita✿davishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01671822274852087499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12461652.post-45217427357550721172008-09-01T11:50:00.000-04:002008-09-01T11:50:00.000-04:00Do it, Liz! You'd be a great consultant and maybe...Do it, Liz! You'd be a great consultant and maybe you'd save the world from more Dottys and Bluebells.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15169707337312707247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12461652.post-83669914633917754882008-09-01T11:31:00.000-04:002008-09-01T11:31:00.000-04:00Just once, I want a celebrity author to say, "you ...<I>Just once, I want a celebrity author to say, "you know, as I was reading with my kids, I fell in love with children's books, and rediscovered just how awesome children's books are" or something like that, rather than "the books suck, so I was forced to write."</I><BR/><BR/>So true. You wondered about the flowery article and irrelevant comments. But you see, this is not a writer. This is a celebrity who jumped on the children's book bandwagon, and it's just another blip in her public life.Marciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10006966091789130047noreply@blogger.com